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ll of life is relationships. We were created in the image of a relational God and wired for loving relationships by a God who exists in relationships. Loving relationships were designed to be vehicles for the transmission of emotionally healthy connections and attachments, which were to facilitate the passing of one’s legacy of love and faith from one generation to the next.
However, one of many dire consequences of our Edenic parents’ choice to distrust God, was a rupture in the quality of our human relationships. From Genesis to Revelation, Scriptures are full of stories recounting broken and challenging relationships. We can see, especially throughout the plan of redemption, that the Father’s willing Son chooses to take on the human flesh experience to showcase the Father’s relational love and grace toward His broken-by-sin children. God’s healing-saving love is the epicenter of the Good News Gospel!
mericans faced the realities of U.S. election violence less than four years ago. In addition to the insurrection at the Capitol in 2021, we saw the lives of Vice-President Michael Pence and Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi threatened in real time. And now, former President Donald Trump was grazed by a bullet on his right ear by a registered member of his own party at a campaign rally in Western Pennsylvania. These realities demand extra vigilance and determination in the face of political violence.
Marcus’s mother had a different approach. She taught him to love himself and to dream of greater things in life than their current circumstances. She instilled self-confidence and the belief that Marcus could be a kind of Moses figure. How prescient.
OPTIMAL HEALTH
In addition to these factors, the COVID-19 pandemic, with its isolation and because of these inequities, made black communities even more vulnerable to mental health problems, particularly among young people. In 2020, suicide was the third leading cause of death for blacks ages 15 to 24. Post-COVID-19 we continue to see a rise in mental health issues among young blacks.
While there are many factors contributing to the development of poor mental health, and much work to do to address these factors, there is hope. You can promote good mental health by eating a whole-food, plant-based diet, regular exercise, and adequate sleep. It is important to note that while these factors help improve mood, mental health issues that are persistent and interfere with performance of everyday activities, and thoughts of harming oneself, should always be evaluated by a health professional.
Life Design
The Revive Family Guide: Success Tips
By Delbert Baker
In a time when families face numerous challenges, you can create a dynamic impact on your family’s well-being. Using the REVIVE guide, here are six proven principles that will positively affect your family. These tips are basic, but that is their genius. If you use them, they will transform your family and home environment.

Respect shown through compassionate communication is the cornerstone of a strong family. Practice active listening and open communication to understand each other. Research shows that families who communicate effectively tend to have stronger bonds, fewer conflicts, and are well-functioning.

Modeling healthy habits in diet and exercise is essential and can be fun and bonding. Plan regular family outings that include good eating and engaging physical activities. Such habits will improve cardiovascular health, reduce stress, and promote family well-being.
OPTIMAL HEALTH
Family Matters
“You are going to be just like your daddy!”
“You’re bad attitude is just like your mother!”
In its simplest form, generational cycles have to do with what one generation passes to the next. We often spend our childhood longing to grow up and then realize when we become adults that childhood and adolescence weren’t too bad after all. However, we long to grow up and get out of the home we grew up in, thinking that we have a better way to navigate life.
Robert Subby says in the book, Lost in the Shuffle, “Many of us left home, defiantly vowing—I’ll never do it like my parents. Unfortunately, we are what we learn, and eventually, somehow our parents manage to take up residence in us…Only later as adults do we discover that we have never truly left home. In fact, in many ways we are just like our parents, who played the same game.”
Doggette was in first grade when he dressed in his dad’s preaching robe for career day at his elementary school. But it was in middle school, interacting with other Christians for the first time, that he felt a calling to ministry beyond just following in his great-grandfather, grandfather, and father’s footsteps.
“I loved the theological conversations I’d have with my friends at school,” Doggette says. “So, I was always reading and studying the Bible, preparing for those discussions.”
Doggette credits his parents for instilling in him and his brothers “holy habits” as he calls them. Daily family worship; prayer; Bible study; and consistent involvement in church and church activities.
By the time he got back to the river, Woodrow’s lifeless body was floating face down in the river. As a result of his untimely death, my great-grandmother Adaline forbade her children from going swimming and none of them ever learned how to swim. In truth, this decision was rooted in fear. What would happen if her children were in a situation that required them to swim to live? However, in Adaline’s grief-stricken mind this was the best pathway forward.
At the time of this writing, America is battling the undercurrent of inflation, affordable housing shortages, and even the looming political threat of Project 2025. Black families struggle against these contemporary realities. Being black in America already implies a tough swim against constant microaggressions, the threat of, and broadcasting of blacks dying, and the apprehension that we cannot sufficiently buoy our children in a system that attempts to drag them under.
I tried to end our brief exchange on another topic, and a good note. Months later, though he did the best job that he could, that job didn’t work out. When I rejoiced and thanked God for hearing my prayers, my son failed to appreciate my effervescence, and excused himself from the conversation. I text him the next day:
The Apostle Paul wrote a curious warning in 2 Timothy 3:2: children will be disobedient to parents. The text doesn’t indicate what age an individual ceases to be considered a “child,” or at what point that “child’s” disobedience to a parent ceases to be an issue.
I was privileged to sit down for a candid discussion with Heflin, in an interview that only time and God allowed.
Smith: So Paul, I’m glad you took this time out to talk with me and the fellow readers of Message Magazine about your journey and the insight of your faith walk and as you put it — your encounter with God. When did you discover your gift of singing?
-Mary Wingate
ow do we deal with the silence of God? How do we respond to unanswered prayer? What should our response be when we claim God’s promises but nothing seems to happen? What should we do when God says nothing? The challenge of unanswered prayer may lead us to experience despair. Nearly everyone in his or her lifetime will encounter what seems like unanswered prayer, and nearly everyone in his or her lifetime will seem to encounter God’s silence.
The truth is, God always answers prayer. Sometimes He does not give us the answer we want. The Bible says that His thoughts are as high above our thoughts as the heavens are above the earth (Isaiah 55:9). If we always understood what He was doing, we would be as smart as God. Sometimes God does not say yes to our requests because we are asking for something that does not even exist. We are like the mother of James and John in Matthew, chapter 20, who wanted her sons to sit on the right and left of Jesus in an earthly kingdom. Jesus gently responded to her request by telling her she did not know what she was asking. Jesus was not going to set up an earthly kingdom, for his kingdom was not of this world (John 18:36). In many of our prayers, we ask with insufficient knowledge.
fter pastoring for more than 20 years, I still meet a surprising number of people who think that if they fail at life, it is how things should be. They will say, “Pastor, this was in the cards,” or “Pastor Snell, I was always going to end up this way.”
Some believe that if their parents or grandparents made terrible decisions in the past, they will make the same mistakes. Whether they use the word or not, many believe that failure is in their destiny, no matter what they do or how hard they try. However, others believe they don’t have to regard their choices or actions because they come from a long line of successful people and environments.
And, I have to be honest; it would be nice to think that no matter what I do, or whatever choices I make, I’m going to succeed because I’m supposed to. So, if my father is a successful businessman, I will be too. If my mother marries well, I will automatically make excellent decisions regarding romantic relationships. If my family is known for being great scholars, I should get through school without even trying.
That simply isn’t the case.
Baron Sovory
“Woman, behold thy son!” then to John, “Behold thy mother!” John understood Christ’s words, and accepted the trust. He at once took Mary to his home, and from that hour cared for her tenderly.
Jesus is quite literally in the process of dying, yet He pauses to ensure that the needs of His widowed mother will be cared for. We know that Mary was a widow, otherwise she would not have needed a surrogate.
Have you ever conducted a Google search for all the references in Scripture to our responsibility to care for widows? Try it now. They are numerous. The text above, as do the others, show God’s priority here.
“And let them make Me a Sanctuary, that I may dwell among them.”
God was indicating His desire to be “close” to them then – as He desires to be close to us right now! This Sanctuary, and its services served as a visual illustration of God’s plan of salvation for all His people (see Exodus 25-30).
The Sanctuary and its compartments or sections, held multiple, symbolic furnishings.
- The Laver (which represented Baptism).
- The Altar of Burnt Offerings (which represented Calvary).
In the first section of the Enclosed Sanctuary (or Holy Place).
- The Table of Shewbread (which represented Jesus, who is the Bread of Life).
- The Candlestick (which represented Jesus – and His people as the light of the world.
- The Altar of Incense (which represented the prayers of the people ascending as a “sweet smelling savor” to God.
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