While a home with two loving parents is the ideal scenario for every child, many children live in circumstances where parents are separated for some reason, resulting in various living arrangements that can impact their emotional well-being. In 2010, The Pew Research Center conducted a study chronicling the trend that has developed over the decades.
“Children in America are growing up in a much more diverse set of living arrangements than they did a half-century ago,” researchers noted at the time.
“In 1960, nearly nine-in-ten children under age 18 resided with two married parents (87%); by 2008, that share had dropped to 64%. Over the same period, the percentage of children born to unmarried women rose eightfold, from 5% to 41%. Far more children now live with divorced or never-married parents, and the number who live with cohabiting same-sex parents, while still relatively small, has grown over the past two decades.”
Parental separation places children in an especially vulnerable state of change and can create immediate and long-lasting adverse effects, including higher chances of developing depression and anxiety, experiencing a drop in academic performance, and having marital problems as adults. But these effects are not inevitable. To lower a child’s risk of such negative consequences, separated parents must prioritize the child’s/children’s needs and present a unified front. Learning how to do so is necessary now more than ever for black households, as black millennials are more likely than other groups to live with a child and no spouse, according to the Pew Research Center. The following are co-parenting tips compiled from a variety of resources.