DELBERT BAKER
LIFE DESIGN
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By Dr. Delbert Baker
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alph Emerson once said, “The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.”

This is what destiny and purpose is all about. Explore the following for your self-improvement.

SELF-INVENTORY
Assess your understanding of purpose and destiny by answering the following questions (1 = Agree; 3 = Disagree). The following Understanding Key corresponds to the Self-Inventory Questions.

1. Can you define what life purpose and destiny are?


2. Do you desire to live a life of purpose?


3. Is it essential to realize your life purpose?


4. Can you outline steps to discover life’s purpose?


UNDERSTANDING KEY
Circular brown icon with a white number one numeral insideDefine with clarity: In this context purpose, destiny and calling complement each other. Destiny refers to the objective of one’s life. Purpose is our motivating reason and intention while calling is the inner urge that compels us to “know what we are on earth to do!”

Circular brown icon with a white number two numeral insideEagerly Search-out Purpose: To be on the right path our choices should lead us to cooperate with God by: 1) believing He has a plan for us on earth and in heaven; 2) knowing, when we cooperate with God, His plan for us will be realized; 3) diligently praying, studying spiritual and general materials for insight; 4) searching for providential direction, indications and signals; and 5) believing we will find our purpose (see Jeremiah 29:11-13, NIV).

Circular brown icon with a white number three numeral insideFacts Validate Benefits: Though many people may not realize their purpose, it is possible to discover it. Research bears out that pursuing purpose and destiny gives direction, adds fulfillment to life, and prepares us for eternal life. Further, people living in purpose are healthier, are mentally and emotionally resilient, and live longer.

Circular brown icon with a white number four numeral insideInternal and External: Pastor-writer Frederick Buechner highlights steps to discover life purpose. “The kind of work God usually calls you to is the kind of work (a) that you need most to do and (b) that the world most needs to have done… The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”

As you engage in the search for purpose and destiny, write out your impressions. Then share with God and a friend. You’ll be amazed at the focus, fulfillment, and happiness that will materialize. Live in purpose!

DR. DELBERT BAKER is an international educator with a broad worldview and an astute observer of human nature. He has degrees in theology, history, counseling and administration with a Master of Divinity, PhD in Organizational Communication, and is a certified Executive Leadership Coach.